Help with my curly hair?

I have naturally curly hair and I definately share your pain. The best way to keep it from sticking out and loosing up at the ends is to get a haircut that has some layer ad removes some of the bulk from the bottom. The thing with curly hair is if you try to make it lay flat if won't but if you just let it do what it wants it'll work out the best. It has a mind of its own.